Watch the show with the sound
turned off.
What do you think the characters' relationships are based on
the ways in which they are communicating? What are they feeling and expressing
based on the nonverbal behavior you are observing?
I watched the show Are We There Yet? In the opening scene there
are two women that look like they are arguing with each other it seems that one
is the supervisor over the other one. Then in the next one there are two
children and a man sitting around a table they seem to be having a conversation
about something that the man was working with one the table he seems to be
their father. Then the man says something and the children looked scared. In
the next scene thee two women are shown in a police department with one
handcuffed and the other one looks like she is fussing. Then a man comes in to
the police department and tries to talk to the police woman. She frowns and
points to a seat, he walks away. Then he talks to her again and she is smiling
and then the lady that was handcuffed walked out with the man. I gather from
the way they were interacting that they are married and that he is trying to
talk to her but she will not let him get a word in. Then they get to what is
their home and their children and the man that was with the children said
something and left.
Now, watch the show with the sound
turned on.
What assumptions did you make about the characters and plot
based on the ways in which you interpreted the communication you observed? Would
your assumptions have been more correct if you had been watching a show you
know well?
I assumed that the two women were arguing with each other
and they actually were not, they were talking about a project they were working
on. I could not tell if one was the supervisor of the other. I assumed that the
man was the father of the two children and it turned out that he was not their
father but a friend of the families watching them while their father tried to
get their mother out of jail. He did say that he was looking for a suspected terrorist
by the call sign off “the telephone terrorists”. Which it turns out the kids are the ones that
he is looking for. I assumed that this show was about a dysfunctional woman with
troubled teens. I was very wrong, even though I believe that the mother needs
to learn how to handle her stress and anger better when dealing with people she
has to deal with. If this had been a show that I have been watching for a while
like Grey’s Anatomy I would have made more accurate assumptions about what I
was watching.
Hi Chenieka
ReplyDeleteYour closing sentence carries a lot of meaning for me, It is so true of our daily relationships we have with people, communicating with someone you know verses someone unknown is very different. Our prior knowledge of familiar people help support our communication, as we often can predict moods and know how to communicate more effectively or as is the case at times forgiven when our communication is not so clear. I think we concentrate more and are guarded with new people, which is a way of protecting ourselves.
Looking on the outside and not hearing is amazing. Our perceptions can be so different from what is actually suppose to be perceived. I like to hear that it was a eye opening experience for you as well.
ReplyDeleteThank you
Chenieka,
ReplyDeleteIt is interesting how we use our experiences to try and categorize situations we are unfamiliar with. It has been fun reading the blogs this week as we have learned about our accuracy in interpreting nonverbal communication.